Be loving. Be Inspired. Be True. | Houston Portrait Photographer

If we all had a little more love, a little more inspiration, and a little more truth…

Every once in a while, my world collides with someone who truly inspires me.  I want you to meet Lea.  Not Leah (like my daughter’s name) but Lea, as in Princess Lea for those of you old enough to get that.  I met Lea at Trevor’s soccer practices.  She’s a mom, wife, daughter, and a woman who was unhappy with the way that her body looked after having two kids.  She decided to do something about it.  One goal morphed into another until she was training for an Ironman Triathlon.  WHAT??  I’ll let her tell the story…this is my interview with Lea.

How did you feel about yourself at the beginning of this journey?

I was unhappy with the way my body looked after having two kids. I had never been an exerciser nor very thin. But over the years the weight just kept adding on. I wasn’t confident in my skin.

Was there a motivating factor that led to getting something started?

Truthfully, I was going through a rough patch in my marriage, I was a stay home mom with two small children, I was unhappy. So I started walking to relieve stress. I needed something that was for me. I think I lost my sense of self and was looking to get that back.

Tell me about how you started your workout program.  

In 2009 I started out walking, pushing the boys in a double stroller.  Then I worked my way up to running.  I eventually joined a gym and got a personal trainer for several months. I also got involved with Team in Training and ran my first marathon with them in 2010.  I then trained for my first triathlon with Team in Training in 2011.  I really enjoyed triathlon, the competition and the training so that was my focus for the past 3 years and culminated with Ironman Texas in 2014.

Tell me about how the beginning grew into more and more training.

 As I saw results in the way I looked and felt I was motivated to do more and to keep going. I realized that I could be fit and healthy and it felt good to feel confident in myself and my body.

What continued to motivate you to do more?

The competition motivated me to continue to train. I liked seeing my times improving and I enjoyed taking on bigger and bigger challenges.

Tell me about training for the Ironman Triathlon.

I trained 6-7 days a week for 7 months with OutRival Racing. It was exhausting for both me and my family. I was fortunate that as a stay home mom I could train during the day while my boys were at school, but there was also a lot of long training on the weekends.

Who supported you through your training?

My husband, kids, mom and friends supported me through training. I’m sure they were tired of hearing about triathlon and training!

Did you ever feel like giving up?

Some days I did, especially on those long workout days, but I’m very goal driven and I stuck with it.

How did you feel once you accomplished your goal(s)?

It felt amazing to finish Ironman Texas! It was surreal crossing the finish line. It’s really hard to explain what it felt like, I was in pain, I was exhausted, I was ecstatic, I was proud, I was happy.

Tell me about this journey and what is has meant to you now that you’ve had some time to reflect on it.

This journey has been life changing for me. I was 30 years old, overweight and unhappy, I made a choice to change and I am so much better for it. Six years later I am confident, healthy, active with my kids, and a happier more positive person. I have had some set backs.

What are the next steps for you in terms of keeping a healthy balance of life, health, and fitness.

I was burnt out from all the ironman training, so, this past year I haven’t trained much at all. I’m also going through a divorce and have had to reenter the workforce. I’ve put on about 15lbs due to these life changes. I’m finally settling into a routine with kids, work, and my wonderful boyfriend. I am getting back into the gym and I am starting to build my running base again. I am signed up for the New York Marathon in November. I have recently worked with a personal trainer to help me establish a weight routine and of course for the accountability. I see fitness as a part of life and I will do my best to be active and fit. I may not compete as much as I used to, but I foresee myself running and doing triathlon for many many years to come.

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If headshot lighting feels confusing, I put together a guide with 3 simple setups that will get you consistent results—link in bio.

If your headshots feel a little “off”… it’s usually not your camera—it’s your lighting.

Here are 5 mistakes I see all the time:

1️⃣ Lighting from below 
  Creates unflattering shadows. Keep your light slightly above eye level.
 
2️⃣ Too much (or too harsh) light 
  Softer, controlled light will always look more professional.
 
3️⃣ No direction to your light 
  Flat lighting = flat images. You need some angle to create depth.
 
4️⃣ Mixing multiple light sources 
  This is how you end up with weird color and inconsistent tones.
 
5️⃣ Ignoring catchlights 
  Small detail, big impact—this is what brings life to your subject’s eyes.
 
Lighting doesn’t need to be complicated… it just needs to be intentional.

Curious—what’s been the hardest part about lighting for you?
I put together a Guide to Photography Gear for those of you who need some help deciding what is actually worth investing in (and what's not). The link is in my bio!

Lighting is one of those things that feels complicated when you’re starting out… but it doesn’t have to be.

At the end of the day—light is light.

You don’t need the most expensive setup to get good results. What matters more is having something reliable that you understand how to use.

Especially if you’re shooting outside… the last thing you want is a $2,000 light going down in the wind.

Start simple.
Focus on gear you can trust.
And build from there.

Curious—what lighting setup are you using right now?
My Photographer Gear Guide is linked in my bio if you’re trying to figure out what’s actually worth investing in when you’re first starting out.

Because the truth is—you don’t need everything right away.

When you’re new, it’s easy to feel like you need all the gear… but really, it comes down to a few key pieces.

A solid camera body and a really good lens will take you further than a full bag of equipment you don’t know how to use yet.

If you’re deciding where to spend your money, start there.

A 24–70mm or 70–200mm lens will cover more than you think—and give you the flexibility to shoot a wide range of sessions without overcomplicating things.

Curious—what was the first piece of gear you invested in?
‼️ No clients (or videographers) were harmed in the making of this video 🤣

(For the record—this is very much a joke.)

But if you are a photographer, you know the real challenge isn’t getting someone in front of the camera… it’s knowing how to guide them once they’re there.

Small adjustments = big difference in how confident and natural someone looks.

And having a go-to posing flow makes everything feel easier—for you and your client. (so you don't resort to violence 😉)

➡️ I put together a Headshot Posing Flow Cheat Sheet to help with exactly that—link in bio.

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